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Re: I'm really hurting
      02/09/05 09:24 AM
Kimm

Reged: 03/10/04
Posts: 1171
Loc: Toronto, Ontario, Canada

Hi Ruchie...

I'm so sorry you're going through all this. I don't know what it was exactly that you went through as a child, but I can tell you that I went through some serious traumas as well when I was growing up and it's only recently that I've been able to deal with these things and let them go.

It's so easy to allow things like this to control you and run your life and define who you are. Just remember that through all of the troubles and traumas you've gone through...you survived!!! You are a wonderful, caring, loving, generous person. I can see that just from reading your posts on the boards here....so I can only imagine what a beautiful person you are in person!!

Realize that you CAN control your life and your actions!! Even though it seems hopeless right now and you feel lost and insecure....you DO have the ability to make changes for yourself!! I promise!!

The answer to your question is YES....you can start today!! Make today the day you say to yourself "I am going to take control". You are strong enough to have gotten through some terrible things in your life and I know you're strong enough to take control. Make today the day you take your life back!! It's not easy....I know this from personal experience, but you can do it....I know you can. I have faith in you.

Sorry if I've gone on and on...that wasn't my intention...I just want you to realize that you and only you have to power to take control of your life and make changes and I know you can do it. You have my 100% support. Feel free to email me if you want to. I'm always happy to talk.

fixion88@hotmail.com

*HUGS*

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* I'm really hurting
Snow for Sarala
02/09/05 09:02 AM
* Re: I'm really hurting
Janey
02/13/05 06:31 AM
* Re: I'm really hurting
thepurplelollie
02/10/05 12:49 AM
* Re: I'm really hurting
MissS
02/09/05 10:12 PM
* I think Beth said it all for me. Big hugs. I'm thinking of you-nt
doubletrouble
02/09/05 05:40 PM
* Thanks Amy *big hugs* backathcya! n-t
Snow for Sarala
02/09/05 09:30 PM
* Ruchie, had a bit more to say once the kids went to bed. You have email-nt
doubletrouble
02/10/05 12:57 AM
* Re: I'm really hurting
daliatree
02/09/05 01:48 PM
* DALIA
Snow for Sarala
02/09/05 07:35 PM
* Ruchie
daliatree
02/09/05 07:57 PM
* Dalia!
Sara-Sage
02/10/05 03:20 AM
* Re: Dalia!
daliatree
02/10/05 07:58 AM
* Re: Dalia!
Snow for Sarala
02/10/05 08:22 AM
* Re: Dalia!
Sara-Sage
02/10/05 08:07 AM
* Tina! Thanks!
Snow for Sarala
02/10/05 08:24 AM
* To Ruchie!
Sara-Sage
02/10/05 08:30 AM
* Re: To Ruchie!
Snow for Sarala
02/10/05 09:04 AM
* Re: To Ruchie!
Sara-Sage
02/10/05 11:08 AM
* Hi Dalia....I sent ya an e-mail AND
Snow for Sarala
02/09/05 08:24 PM
* Re: Hi Dalia....I sent ya an e-mail AND
daliatree
02/09/05 08:32 PM
* DALIA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Help please!
Cara4503
02/10/05 06:56 AM
* Cara...
daliatree
02/10/05 08:06 AM
* Dalia, sounds so scarey!
Augie
02/11/05 07:52 PM
* Re: Dalia, sounds so scarey! :-)
daliatree
02/11/05 08:02 PM
* Re: Dalia, sounds so scarey! :-)
Augie
02/12/05 09:11 AM
* Beth!
daliatree
02/14/05 10:45 AM
* Dalia...more questions
Snow for Sarala
02/14/05 11:01 AM
* Re: Dalia...more questions
daliatree
02/14/05 12:02 PM
* Re: Dalia, sounds so scarey! :-)
Augie
02/12/05 06:11 PM
* beth 2!!!
daliatree
02/14/05 10:53 AM
* bump two above posts-nt
Augie
02/13/05 09:36 AM
* Ruchie!
Lana_Marie
02/12/05 06:27 PM
* ((((((LanaMarie)))))))
Snow for Sarala
02/12/05 09:51 PM
* Re: ((((((LanaMarie)))))))
Lana_Marie
02/13/05 08:55 AM
* Re: Dalia, sounds so scarey! :-)
doubletrouble
02/11/05 10:43 PM
* Dalia, can giving up sugar cause you to have cold sypmtoms....?
Snow for Sarala
02/10/05 08:28 AM
* Re: Dalia, can giving up sugar cause you to have cold sypmtoms....?
daliatree
02/10/05 09:05 AM
* Ok, Dr. Dalia....
Snow for Sarala
02/10/05 09:14 AM
* Re: Ok, Dr. Dalia....
daliatree
02/10/05 10:16 AM
* Thakns Dalia...off to check my mail...
Snow for Sarala
02/09/05 08:34 PM
* Oh Ruchie
Sara-Sage
02/09/05 01:31 PM
* Tina *hugs*
Snow for Sarala
02/09/05 07:39 PM
* Re: Tina *hugs*
Sara-Sage
02/10/05 02:55 AM
* Sorry Ruchie
Augie
02/09/05 01:31 PM
* Beth *big hugs*
Snow for Sarala
02/09/05 07:45 PM
* Great advice and response for Ruchie, Beth -nt-
Sara-Sage
02/09/05 01:34 PM
* Thanks dear Tina
Augie
02/09/05 01:49 PM
* Re: Thanks dear Tina
Sara-Sage
02/09/05 01:53 PM
* Feel better
Augie
02/09/05 02:03 PM
* Knowing oneself takes practice. If you have a "Higher Power," call on that, first. And...
Urban Rain
02/09/05 01:18 PM
* Re: Knowing oneself takes practice. If you have a "Higher Power," call on that, first. And...
Snow for Sarala
02/09/05 07:49 PM
* Re: I'm really hurting
Yoda (formerly Hans)
02/09/05 12:56 PM
* Re: I'm really hurting
Snow for Sarala
02/09/05 07:52 PM
* Re: I'm really hurting
Yoda (formerly Hans)
02/10/05 05:16 AM
* Ruchie
Sara-Sage
02/10/05 03:47 AM
* *HUG*
khyricat
02/09/05 12:16 PM
* Re: *HUG*
Snow for Sarala
02/09/05 07:54 PM
* I know its an addiction.. but..
khyricat
02/10/05 06:09 AM
* Re: I'm really hurting
Sheri01
02/09/05 11:45 AM
* Sheri
Snow for Sarala
02/09/05 07:59 PM
* So sorry, Ruchie
barbie
02/09/05 11:27 AM
* Re: So sorry, Ruchie
Snow for Sarala
02/09/05 08:29 PM
* Oh, Ruchie
BL
02/09/05 10:18 AM
* Re: Oh, Ruchie
Snow for Sarala
02/09/05 08:33 PM
* Re: I'm really hurting
Shell Marr
02/09/05 09:52 AM
* Re: I'm really hurting
Snow for Sarala
02/09/05 09:05 PM
* Re: I'm really hurting
melitami
02/09/05 09:49 AM
* Re: I'm really hurting
Snow for Sarala
02/09/05 09:08 PM
* *HUGS* You've got mail! -nt-
melitami
02/10/05 09:36 AM
* Oh Ruchie!! Sending you an e-mail. Hang in there! -nt-
Tissy
02/09/05 09:46 AM
* Re: I'm really hurting
michele
02/09/05 09:43 AM
* Re: I'm really hurting
Snow for Sarala
02/09/05 09:18 PM
* Oh sweetie!
Linz
02/09/05 09:40 AM
* Re: Oh sweetie!
Snow for Sarala
02/09/05 09:23 PM
* Re: I'm really hurting
Kimm
02/09/05 09:24 AM
* Kimm...e-mailing you *hugs* n-t
Snow for Sarala
02/09/05 09:25 PM

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