First I was reading Nelly's advice post and was thinking of how cool it was and how close it sounded to my boyfriend and I, then... I read about seperate bedrooms, etc and ME TOO. My bf and I will be together 4 years and have lived together for 3 and never shared a room/bed. I never tell anyone because they make assumptions and say how weird it is. We work different schedules, I looove my sleep, falling asleep watching tv and he gets up early all the time whether working or not. We have a 2 bedroom aparment so we could have our own beds. If you really love someone and are truly meant to be together then you realize that you don't need to spend every "sleeping/ waking" moment with them. Alot of people think it hurts the intimacy in a relationship but just by reading Nelly's posts you can see that is not the case. Anyway, too cool that we have this in common, hard to talk about with many people...... you guys are great and I am so glad to have found this website!!!!