Personally, I don't smoke, never really have. I may have smoked maybe 5 cigs in my life, years ago, when I was drunk. I don't dislike people that smoke. I dislike people who are inconsiderate of it. I hate going into a public building and having to walk through a haze of smoke from 10 people huddle around smoking in front of the doors. I dislike how a lot of people throw there butts on the ground. If someone wants to smoke, thats fine by me, who am I to judge? But please, be considerate.
Heather, you ARE a considerate smoker!! Your clothes don't smell and neither does your house! I have several friends who smoke, I even provide an ash tray for them, OUTSIDE my house, on the porch! I KNOW about addictions and I do not judge anyone for them. My mom chain smokes. This has caused issues between us. She is aware of my no smoking in the house rule at my house. Last year, I invited her down to stay the night and bought us tickets to the Christmas Spectular Show. She was SO pissed at me because I made her go outside in the cold to smoke. Did she think just because it was winter out, I was going to let people smoke in my house?? She has never been back to my house and I doubt she ever will. This is a very sad thing for me. Especially with my trying to have a baby. She can't go 5 minutes without a cig. I will not be taking baby over there and exposing a helpless infant to all that second hand smoke. So, I guess my baby won't have much of a grandma and I find that very, very sad.
Anyway, I degressed, sorry. My point is, I could care less if someone smoked, just be considerate about it! We all have our vices of one sort or another!
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We all have our vices of one sort or another!
