Well then you need to move! That's all there is to it What the heck kind of girls don't like nice guys??? You are right though NYC is probably a tough place to date in but aren't there so many to choose from being NYC and all????? I don't know.......I found my hubby in high school and stuck with him. I can't imagine what it must be like to be out "in the world" and trying to find the right one. I guess I'm lucky in that respect
We have some divorced friends who are in their 30's with small children that are trying to find another mate and MAN are they having trouble. It's tough out there being single. When you are "old" uh hem, like us, you don't want to be in the bar scene. I feel for them.
Oh well, fear not. There's a pot for every lid right? Your lid is out there somewhere!!!!!