Now, its too bad the wedding is not this week. With the way I am feeling I'd fly to Ireland just to caough all over the food, then fly back. Okay, seriously not as good as Nelly's suggestions on what she would do but hey I can't really compete with Nel.
Honestly though Sinead, your friend so copped out for no good reason. Although you would make a wonder and more importantly beautiful bridesmaid, you don't need this kind of crap from a "friend." I'm all about respect and you were disrespected and I don't like that.
Anyway, I think my fever has caused me to go on a rant but at least my sense of humour is intact. This is justmy opinion, I could be wrong...