Quote: Going out on a limb here, but do you think there may be some possibility that she really is concerned for you and your well being?
Honestly, I think she thinks she is concerned but has other motives and has convinced herself that this is her motive
Quote: What, is she thinking you are gonna have to run down the aisle in the middle of the ceremony to visit the bathroom? Give me a break! I don't even get D attacks, just pain and she knows this Sounds like she is simply a spoiled self centered person who wants everything to focus on her I guess. BRIDEZILLA! I agree, its a lot like she hasn't had many problems in her life, her Dad died when she was young but she doesn't remember that but she hasn't really had to deal with any traumas and has never wanted for anything
Like Tina said, she obviously isn't the friend you thought she was, which is also very hurtful to you now. Yes, she is a very sweet, kind person but this is just strange!
Quote: I don't think you need an excuse not to go to the wedding. She gave you a very good reason not to go. I don't think I could go and watch someone else take my place.
Padhraig doesn't want us to go at all, he is dead against it. I think it will be hard but unless I have a fantastic reason I will be going. Will be a very strange day, especially as one of my best friends is a bridesmaid
Thanks so much Augie for all you had to say, I am quite mad at the whole thing at the moment, but need to focus on going away this weekend instead...yippee!