I can't believe what I'm reading! What kind of friend would do that! I would definitely be so very insulted by that kind of treatment, especially when it's like you're getting kicked while you're down. And what a kick in the face after doing so well with your IBS and then for her to say that it's get in the way of her wedding. I think she's just really ignorant to think that you wouldn't be able to handle it. I'm so mad at her for you! I'm surprised you kept your cool and didn't storm out and say you weren't going to the wedding. It's almost like maybe she needed to make someone else a bridesmaid and pulled excuses out of her butt to fire you. This is an outrage! Try not to let this get you down if that's possible because we all know how far you've come and you know that for yourself too and that's no way for her to treat a friend. HUGE HUGE hugs for you and don't make her a bridesmaid in your wedding MAybe the IBS gods will strike her down now that she's been so mean about it. Hugs hugs hugs Sinead!