I am sorry. That seems so catty and girlish to do that. She doesn't seem very mature. You know what though, being a bridesmaid is not as fun as you think it will be. There is the cost and hosting a shower and all the whining the bride does and the whole day becomes so stressful. It was one of my best decisions to not be in my sister's wedding last fall. And I got D really bad at the wedding even without being in it. Yet I was fine last year as a bridesmaid- no D just bloat. So maybe you will get an opportunity to be in a wedding that is calmer and friendlier and for someone really sweet and the serenity and happiness will make your tummy and everything happy too. (do you follow? I mean cuz at my sis's wedding it was crazy and I got sick and at the other I was happy and fine ) Hugs!
-------------------- IBS-A for 20 years with terrible bloating and gas. On the diet since April 2004. Remember this from Heather's information pages:
"You absolutely must eat insoluble fiber foods, and as much as safely possible, but within the IBS dietary guidelines. Treat insoluble fiber foods with suitable caution, and you'll be able to enjoy a wide variety of them, in very healthy quantities, without problem." Please eat IF foods!