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      12/27/04 03:42 PM
atomic rose

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Honestly, Terri, she sounds... not quite right. I mean, personalities clash, and I think it's still within the realm of normal to not get along with someone who's perfectly nice. But to slam the door in ANYONE's face is beyond rude - and when it's someone you're related to, even "just" by marriage, that's just not even normal civil human behavior. Sounds to me like she has issues. I don't see that any of this is your fault.

As for liking in-laws... I have mixed feelings about my boyfriend's family, who will someday be my in-laws. I believe they're good people, but their personalities don't mesh with mine and they work my nerves something awful. Even so, my mother raised me right and I'm polite and friendly and make a sincere effort to get along with them for my boyfriend's sake. I would NEVER do anything deliberately rude and insulting to them.

Anyway... I wish I had advice, it sounds like an awful situation. Has your son said anything to her? I mean, if anything, it's kind of his place to try to smooth things over - the way I see it, you've done everything right!

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* Does everybody hate their mothers-in-law?
MissS
12/27/04 08:27 AM
* Re: Does everybody hate their mothers-in-law?
chinagrl
01/03/05 11:32 AM
* Terri
BL
01/03/05 05:52 AM
* Re: Does everybody hate their mothers-in-law?
Laura107
01/03/05 12:21 AM
* Re: Does everybody hate their mothers-in-law?
tc2004
12/28/04 06:49 AM
* thanks tc2004
MissS
12/28/04 08:17 AM
* Re: thanks tc2004
tc2004
12/29/04 06:51 AM
* Re: I don't really "hate" my mil, though...
gigi
12/28/04 06:49 AM
* Re: Does everybody hate their mother-in-laws?
AmandaPanda, J.D.
12/27/04 09:11 PM
* Panda
MissS
12/27/04 10:39 PM
* Re: Does everybody hate their mother-in-laws?
daliatree
12/27/04 08:49 PM
* I don't hate my mil
daliatree
12/27/04 08:53 PM
* dalia
MissS
12/27/04 10:19 PM
* This from a man who had harsh words with his mother, tonight...
RDumas
12/27/04 08:23 PM
* Re: This from a man who had harsh words from with his mother, tonight...
MissS
12/27/04 08:31 PM
* A wing and a prayer.
RDumas
12/27/04 08:34 PM
* Re: Does everybody hate their mother-in-laws?
Dr. Spice Yamin
12/27/04 07:51 PM
* Not Everybody!
Bevvy
12/27/04 07:49 PM
* Bevrs
MissS
12/27/04 08:10 PM
* Whoa...
atomic rose
12/27/04 03:42 PM
* Casey
MissS
12/27/04 07:42 PM
* Terri, this has me puzzled.....
barbie
12/27/04 01:42 PM
* Barbie
MissS
12/27/04 07:32 PM
* Re: Dear Terri, andanyone who may be suffering from toxic family members..
gigi
12/27/04 01:36 PM
* Gayla
MissS
12/27/04 07:12 PM
* Gayla
MissS
12/27/04 07:10 PM
* MIL and I get along great- its my mom...
khyricat
12/27/04 12:31 PM
* khyricat , i'm so glad to hear of your great relationship! nt
MissS
12/27/04 06:59 PM
* Re: Does everybody hate their mother-in-laws?
Brian_NY
12/27/04 12:16 PM
* Brian
MissS
12/27/04 06:57 PM
* Re: Does everybody hate their mother-in-laws?
bamagirl
12/27/04 10:15 AM
* bamagirl, glad to hear of your great relationship. It's encouraging. nt
MissS
12/27/04 06:50 PM
* "Mom" and I are best friends
ecmmbm
12/27/04 09:55 AM
* Michelle
MissS
12/27/04 06:47 PM
* Re: Does everybody hate their mother-in-laws?
Jennifer Rose
12/27/04 09:37 AM
* Re:TeeCee
gigi
12/27/04 09:10 PM
* Gayla
MissS
12/27/04 10:27 PM
* Re: TeeCee. Same here! -nt-
gigi
12/28/04 06:37 AM
* Thanks for your support Jennifer, that's so nice! nt
MissS
12/27/04 06:46 PM
* Re: Does everybody hate their mother-in-laws?
Augie
12/27/04 09:24 AM
* Thanks, Beth. I appreciate your thoughts! nt
MissS
12/27/04 06:44 PM
* Re: Does everybody hate their mother-in-laws?
Sheri01
12/27/04 08:37 AM
* Re: Does everybody hate their mother-in-laws?
MissS
12/27/04 08:44 AM
* Re: Does everybody hate their mother-in-laws?
Sheri01
12/27/04 09:05 AM
* Sheri
MissS
12/27/04 06:43 PM
* Re: I agree with Sherri...
gigi
12/27/04 01:50 PM

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