Lets say hypothetically, that you are at a party for a long-time close friend. Your bring your significant other of two years, and upon walking in the door run into an ex that you are still good friends with, even though they live far away and are married with two kids and you never see each other. This is accepted and fine. You, of course, start talking to this person and such, and don't act as if your partner is not there, but you fail to introduce them.
Is it just me, or is this a BIG problem? Yes, this happened AGAIN to me last night at a party with my BF. We have already been having alot of problems. We have been thorugh this before and he came around and saw my side of things, but now he is saying that it doesn't matter because "Everyone that is important to me knows who you are even if they haven't met you, and it is pointless for me to make a showy introduction. And I am not going to make a big ordeal out of introducing you to people we will only see once or twice more ever."
I am not even talking about hunting people down that I havent met while at the party, my problem was when I was right by his side, and people that were important to him.
he said that as he was talking to people when we split up at the party he would point me out, but I don't care, or course he would, I was one of the 'life of the party' gals, of course a dork like him would want the guys to know that he was with me (I know that comment is alittle cocky, but it is true)
We are chatting on AIM, and he has spent the last half hour defending himself. I have been having serious doubts about our relationship, so he should be watching those things. He always wants one more chance one more chance, and when he doesn't come through always has an excuse. he is also having a problem with me never letting him get his way. I am trying to tell him that my opinion doesn't hurt him, his choices hurt me, even though he thinks it is stupid he still should.
Am I far off base here? The guy is almost 24 years old. And he is made that I am trying to change him cause I like him to make an effort to look nice when we go out places now, rahter than him wearing his beatup tshirts that are from HIGHSCHOOL, no lie. He still wears marching band shirts from 1996.
Someone please let me know if I am crzy or not!
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-Sheri
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