Re: Update: Really hurt feelings by boyfriend
12/02/04 10:17 AM
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Steph! I can't believe that he would say that to you!! I think you've gotten a lot of great wisdom from some other people - but I definitely agree that you have every right to be mad at him. It's a good sign that he is desperately trying to talk to you and clearly he feels bad, but there was no excuse. I think you should use this as a chance to tell him everything you've been going through since you said that you don't really tell him everything like it is all the time - but let him know how sick you feel and that it depresses you and makes it physically difficult for you to do anything and instead he should be supportive and cheering you on when you still manage to get up every day and carry on. Granted, if someone said any of that stuff to me I'd probably really seriously consider leaving that person because no one has the right to make you feel like that - but after reading your response to Dalia's comments, I think maybe with some serious apologies and an understanding that you will never tolerate anything like that again, I think I'd give him a second chance since the move is probably really stressing him out and guys are stupid when they're drunk with other guys.
Well I hope that some of that made sense cause it's kind of all over the place, but I have to go to class now so BIG BIG hugs for you and try and take care of yourself because you are such a beautiful and amazing person and he needs to know how lucky he is to have you Look forward to the move!!
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Re: Update: Really hurt feelings by boyfriend
Look forward to the move!! 
