Eeeekkkk, that is a tough one Steph!
Lots of huggs your way! I wish I could give you an inperson hug right now.
What a jerk! You BETTER make sure that he makes it up to you! and we have all seen your recent pic after you got your hair done, you are NOT fat. Just because you are not a twig, you are not fat. Guys want everything. They cannot have a girl that is too skinny, they want girls with big boobs, but they can't have a little weight anywehere else, either. Argh.
Even though it is SOOO inexcusable what he said, guys do have, how do we say it here? 'Liquid balls' when they are drinking around friends. (courage from drinking). What a coward. And to say those things in front of you?? One time my BF said he would break up with me if I ever got fat, and I took it seriously and got really mad at him, even though I am no where near close. he said it when we were out with people, and one of his friends (girl) was mad at him, too.
Guys are so insensitive, don't they know that it is a cardinal rule of relationships not to mention weight?
I know yous are in love and everything and you will work it out, he probably WAS showing off infront of friends, but what I would do (I am very vindictive), is break up, go to the gym everyday, than send him a snapshot a couple of months later with a note that says 'Your loss!' Better yet, a photo with a really hot guy.
That is soooo not cool to embarass you sexually infront of other guys, your man (boy in this case) needs to learn some class. My ex BF used to do that all the time, there is nothing like wanting to crawl under something when that happens.
best of luck Steph, there really is no way to sugarcoat this, it sucks! But just try to concentrate on Canada! Think happy thoughts, don't let him get you down, you will just feel worse physically.
let us know how things turn out!
After the great day you just had, you would think that Adrian would be more appreciative of you right now 
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-Sheri
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