Reged: 07/10/04
Posts: 1176
Loc: Manhattan, New York
Ok, I am really relieved to hear that he has never done this before, since that means there is no pattern and hence, it was just a stupid mistake and definetly connected to his insecurity etc regarding the big move...we cling like mad people to our loved ones OR push them away when we are about to leave them...it gets very confusing as the date gets nearer....you both need to support eachother (I just moved to NYC for my husband....big deal, lots of tears and excitement...I am very close to my parents in London).. So your plan sounds good...the time away should give him lots of space to think about what he has done and then stand your ground and move to Canada holding hands....feel good sweetie, eat safe..lots of love
-------------------- Feel the fear and do it anyway!