Reged: 08/09/04
Posts: 2996
Loc: South East Michigan
BIG HUGE HUGS!!!!!
Honey I have never been in your place, but this is my advice!! If your not happy then leave!!If you have tried to talk it out. If you have treid everything then leave!!! You have to be happy. You don't want another couple of years to go bye and think I should have left back then!!! My heart is breaking for you!! I can't imagine how hard this will be!! BUT You are a strong, smart,and beautifull women!!! You can do this!!!
Try not to worry about his money issues!! They are his not yours!! I know that is going to be hard because you still care for him but it is something you are going to have to do!!! HUGS!!!
Verbal abuse can be JUST as BAD as if he hit you!!! I think it hurst longer and does more damange than a fist, that is just my view!!! It has been 14years since my dad hit me and I can't rember what it felt like, but I always rember how I felt when he Verbaly abused my mom and me!!! It still hurts today!!!
You are to young, smart and pretty to be this sad and to be treated that way!!!! Good Luck and BIG HUGS!!!!!!!!
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