Reged: 07/10/04
Posts: 1176
Loc: Manhattan, New York
I don't think there is an ideal age. I mean, I always said I wanted to get married at 24, and funnily enough DID end up marrying at 24 BUT that was an age for ME!! And to be honest, its hard to believe that I am married (last night I had a dream that I slept with an ex and oh my GOD I woke up this morning next to Asaf feeling really distant and guilty etc at the same time! It was awful...it was because I was watching Oprah before I fell asleep and it was about women and adultery!) so this morning I realised that this is it for the rest of my life, and even though I feel like I am still 16, I am actually married! Freaked out a bit! Stupid dream.. why I am warbling on...oh yeah...so there is no ideal age, you have to be ready for the whole deal...which is really, truly, fun and wonderful with the right person! A marriage can only really be good if you are best friends too...seriously..it involves sooo much housemate, friendship stuff, but obviously you need to be compatible in the juicier ways too!
-------------------- Feel the fear and do it anyway!