I just learned in class yesterday that men smoking lowers sperm production and sperm count.. so I figured i'd let you in on the secret! hehe don't be mad.. i didn't mean to blow your spot! hehe.
and trust me.. I know how hard quitting smoking is.. I smoked since I was forteen and finally quit for over a year.. then I did a bad thing and had one with my bestfriend when she came to visit one year later and now have to quit all over again! so trust me.. I know how hard it is!
ps.. no worries about quitting.. when the time is right it will happen... and just think.. if you get pregnant that would probably be motivation enough to quit.
haha and I totally understand about the parents not finding out. my parents dont' have a clue and I hope to keep it that way always!