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10/13/04 04:34 PM
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jenX
Reged: 08/11/03
Posts: 3252
Loc: Richmond, VA
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sorry things didn't work out. i know you're upset, but it's all going to be ok. sadly, i think you misconstrued what was going on and now he's freakin' out. yes, he should step up and tell you that, but really he probably thinks he shouldn't have to (guy-think!) 'cause you knew he is gay.
i've had a really strong unrequited crush before and it sucks. BIGTIME. mine lasted for over 10 years, so i feel for ya. but listen, you're better than caring for a man who doesn't care for you the same exact way!
if you get to a point where you can be friends with him again, great. if not, you know you will be ok with that, too. my unrequited guy is one of my dearest friends and i hope he will be at my wedding one day!
unfortunately, there are certain types of guys (and girls), straight or not, who get really intense in friendships really quickly. if there's a one-sided sexual attraction involved then the quick-bonding can be misunderstood. it happens.
anyway, i'm sorry it didn't work out... hope you can either get passed it easily or patch things up in a way that satisfies you.
SMOOCHES.
*jen
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