Ya, I don't care if we're not friends really. (Now that I know he gets wigged out so easily). I have a group of 3-4 FEMALE friends at work that I hang out with who are nice, fun, sincere people. He came across so sweet and nice but that's obviously not his true self.
I told my boyfriend that he said "god, relax" to me. (nothing about the crush but that my new gay friend said this to me). My boyfriend said that that tone was pretty hostile and not one that a new friend would use carelessly. And that I shouldn't waste my time trying to be his friend. I agree!
Anyhow, this makes life easier. He is out of the picture. I think since his little old mind is all messed up that's he's afraid of me and I won't hear from him again.