Reged: 08/06/04
Posts: 4381
Loc: Within stray mortar fire of DC
Dude. All the gay guys I know, totally play with girls' emotions. It's like this... THING they have. This is totally normal on their side. But I'm sure this realization helps you, like, not at all.
You can't help who you develop a crush on. I can't either, and that Really Stinks. But it's always made worse by someone who 1) doesn't reciprocate, and 2) plays with your emotions to elevate his self-esteem.
There's nothing sexier than autonomy. Show some and go on with making plans that don't include him, and otherwise just living your life. Ditch the long notes. They's so desperate for attention. Get together with his ex and laugh at his cattiness behind his back. Or go completely psycho and leave a bunny in his desk. But don't hang around in the middle.
He's GAY and he's just not that into you. Go back to hanging with your bf. Or develop a new friendship at work. Girl friends are for shopping and funny joint halloween costumes. Find one. I'm sure she'd want to spend time with you!!!!
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