haha reanne.. I know what you mean about people using each other stuff. I lived with four girls and their boyfriends would come over and shower, eat our food, and just get in the way. it ended up costing us all so much more money, and made us uncomfortable in our own apartment. Sometimes we couldn't even sit in our own living room and watch tv cause the boyfriends would take up the extra seating. I too had a boyfriend.. but if he ate over we'd go out and buy special food, and I never let him do laundry etc at our house.