That is so horrible bf's mom acted like that!
Before you consider moving out, maybe you should evaluate how his mother is other times. But just the fact that she said that, even if she didn't mean it, should raise red flags. If she is normally not like that and really does love you to pieces, maybe you can get past it. But if she is a shady character, maybe you should try to stay away the best that you can. has your bf talked to her about it? Without fighting? He really should.
I don't know how old you are, but I am assuming early twenties/late teens? About my age maybe(I am 21 in a couple weeks)?
I have been through this one before (kinda). My ex bf lived with me and my family, and we all treated him as if he was family, if not better. Even though he was a horrible liar and abusive jerk. I would sometimes stay with him at his house for periods of time (sometimes even months), and his mom would gush over me about how I was the daughter she never had blah blah blah. I come to find out later it was only a show. A friend of mine told me that she would alwys say that my bf (we were engaged) was meant to be with his EX gf (which he is now) and that they would get married one day and she loved her like a daughter blah blah blah.
All behind my back! The b***h also had the nerve to beg me to borrow eight hundred dollars and never has paid it back.
She saw me as a big dollar sign.
*sigh* You live and learn, I was 17/18 years old when all of that happened.
Some times living together young can be complicated, my current bf I have been with almost two years, and although I moved out of my parents house at 19, I moved out ALONE, cause I didn't want to go through a painful living together suffocated feeling again. He stays over on the weekends, and even though I get lonely during the week, it is still a positive experience.
i am not trying to say that is your case, but maybe you should think of moving in with dad? You shouldn't feel like you have to tiptoe around at home.
And remember that it is not your problem, it is hers. Moms get kinda funny when it comes to the girl that is taking thier boy away.
I hope that I have helped at least alittle.
My main thing I want to say is that you know your situation the best, so try to do what is good for you, and not what is the best for everyone else (like bf). I know this is hard cause you love him so much. Remember, it is especially important for us IBSers to take care of ourselves emotionally, the stress can be so horrible on the bowels.
Take care sister, and if you wanna chat some more just let me know.
Good luck on whatever you do
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-Sheri
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