Reged: 08/06/04
Posts: 4381
Loc: Within stray mortar fire of DC
Poor sweetie. Relationships are hard enough without having to deal with your sig oth's relatives too. Her comment in the heat of the moment was very rude. If that's the way she feels, she can express it better.
Don't worry about being in the middle, though. The fact that she gets along well with you (in good times!) and she's called you her adopted dd, well, she really doesn't have a problem with YOU. But it's hard on her because your presence means to her that her son is drifting away from her. Moms are weird that way.
But it's not forever. I'm sending you good mental thoughts, and hoping you get that great job soon!!!