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I don't have much time to post, am about to leave for my first haunted walk this year!

Well, SaraSage, things are getting kinda complicated for ya! I am not sure how gay guys think. If I was still friends with the ones I had, I would ask thier insight. I had a freind (actually two) that were gay and at the time I didn't know, and they would ALWAYS be hanging all over girls. They would always kiss them and make out with them, too, than the gals would be heartbroken when the guys would not want tanything to do with them anymore. My one friend has a "serious" boyfriend, but if he went out without him and got drunk, he would always wind up hooking up with his best friend (a very attractive girl). He also said the comment to me last year about htis same girl, "You should see her halloween costume, she tried it on for me {she dressed up as a dominatrix}. I better not get to drunk. or someething will happen between us at the Halloween party".
Is it just me, or does that make no sense at all?
Maybe you should tone things down with him, and like answer every couple of emails, and force yourself to concentrate on work. You don't want to lose your job over him. if he calls you over to his desk, say that you can't. You could be friends, but just lose some of the intensity. last thing that yuou need is a guy that you aren't dating to make your life complicated! But, you also are taking the chance that if you tone things down that he might get mad and nt want to be friends at all.

About my own issues, I got to talking with the BF last night, and although we didn't talk directly about "us", we talked about relationships and marriage in general. He made the comment that one day when he marries, "maybe it will be to you, or maybe it won't". it didn't sound tacky, and it put me at ease, cause he is not thinking that far ahead anymore.
i also don't want to lose my best (and well, lets face it, only) friend, but for some reason this seems right for right now, even though I know it won't be right for much longer. Even though I know we are reaching the end, for some reason I am still enjoying the moment. It seems weird, I don't even completely understand it. But I am gonna make sure that as soon as things aren't right and that we aren't happy to move on. You are right, life is too short.

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-Sheri

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