All Boards >> The Living Room

View all threads Posts     Flat     Threaded

Sara Sage
      10/07/04 10:15 AM
Sheri01

Reged: 04/19/04
Posts: 1731
Loc: New Jersey

The feelings that you are describing about your BF sound just the way I feel about my BF lately. We get along great (for the most part), but I don't have the at fiery lust and passionate feelings about him anymore. I don't know if I can compare too much to your situation, because you said that you were with your BF for 10 yrs, I have been with mine only almost two.
It is so complicated feeling like that, cause if you are anything like me, you are thinking, "Well, I could atleast 'make do' with him, becasue even if I am not 'in-love' with him I do 'love him'." Or "This guy is great for me in so many ways, we are the best match- could there be anyone else out there for me that mathces up?" or "He knows everything about me and is so tolerant and accepting, would another guy be disturbed by the fact I may get an explosive case of D while out on a date?"
I battled with this for the past couple of months, and I decided to take it little by little. maybe it is only a phase, who knows. You have to be careful not to sabatoge your life, you know what I mean?
I had a heart to heart with him awhile back (minus the attraction to other guys part), but he was willing to work with me. I don't necessarily recommend trying this, because if someone had a talk like that with me, I would dump them, end of story!
I feel like this makes me the most horrible GF, but I really want to make sure that it is the right choice rather than jump into what could be a needless breakup.
Is this kinda of hhow you are feeling? Or am I off track?

--------------------
-Sheri

Print     Remind Me     Notify Moderator    

Entire thread
* What do you guys think? A guy question
Sara-Sage
10/05/04 05:01 PM
* Don't worry.... Be happy
renaanne
10/12/04 07:12 AM
* Re: Don't worry.... Be happy
Sara-Sage
10/12/04 07:19 AM
* maybe you spooked him....
renaanne
10/12/04 08:18 AM
* Damn...
Sara-Sage
10/12/04 08:41 AM
* ADVICE NEEDED, please
Sara-Sage
10/12/04 09:25 AM
* Re: ADVICE NEEDED, please
Sheri01
10/12/04 09:51 AM
* Re: ADVICE NEEDED, please
Sara-Sage
10/12/04 09:54 AM
* Oh god, I have to see him tomorrow...
Sara-Sage
10/11/04 05:55 PM
* Re: Oh god, I have to see him tomorrow...
ribbit
10/11/04 06:35 PM
* Re: Oh god, I have to see him tomorrow...
Sara-Sage
10/12/04 03:51 AM
* Just relax!
Sheri01
10/12/04 06:02 AM
* Re: Just relax!
Sara-Sage
10/12/04 07:19 AM
* Hmmm... just caught up on things!
Sheri01
10/09/04 04:09 PM
* Sheri - just caught up on things!
Sara-Sage
10/09/04 04:17 PM
* Here's a photo of him!!!! OMG *DELETED*
Sara-Sage
10/08/04 04:41 PM
* Me venting some more. I need to get this all out ...long post
Sara-Sage
10/08/04 05:22 PM
* One more thing...
Sara-Sage
10/09/04 08:59 AM
* Re: More info, and me venting some more. I need to get this all out before my BF comes home.
RachelT
10/08/04 05:26 PM
* Re: More info, and me venting some more. I need to get this all out before my BF comes home.
Sara-Sage
10/08/04 05:35 PM
* Re: More info, and me venting some more. I need to get this all out before my BF comes home.
RachelT
10/08/04 05:38 PM
* Re: More info, and me venting some more. I need to get this all out before my BF comes home.
Sara-Sage
10/08/04 05:41 PM
* Re: More info, and me venting some more. I need to get this all out before my BF comes home.
RachelT
10/08/04 05:43 PM
* Oh ya...
Sara-Sage
10/08/04 05:47 PM
* Oh that's right!!!
RachelT
10/08/04 05:50 PM
* Re: Oh that's right!!!
Sara-Sage
10/08/04 05:53 PM
* Re: Oh that's right!!!
heather7476
10/08/04 06:01 PM
* Ok, I will, bye everyone. You guys are the BEST!
Sara-Sage
10/08/04 06:11 PM
* No problem!
RachelT
10/08/04 05:56 PM
* QT
renaanne
10/08/04 04:49 PM
* Re: QT
Sara-Sage
10/08/04 04:50 PM
* Whew!!! he IS cute. - nt
RachelT
10/08/04 04:43 PM
* Re: Whew!!! he IS cute. - nt
Sara-Sage
10/08/04 04:44 PM
* Re: Whew!!! he IS cute. - nt
heather7476
10/08/04 04:47 PM
* Re: Whew!!! he IS cute. - nt
Sara-Sage
10/08/04 04:49 PM
* Re: Whew!!! he IS cute. - nt
heather7476
10/08/04 04:51 PM
* Re: Whew!!! he IS cute. - nt
Sara-Sage
10/08/04 04:53 PM
* Re: Whew!!! he IS cute. - nt
heather7476
10/08/04 05:00 PM
* Re: Whew!!! he IS cute. - nt
Sara-Sage
10/08/04 05:02 PM
* Heh!!! I can only imagine! - nt
RachelT
10/08/04 04:46 PM
* An update for anyone interested...
Sara-Sage
10/08/04 07:32 AM
* I'm Not Nelly, Sheri or Heather, But --
Bevvy
10/09/04 09:52 AM
* Re: I'm Not Nelly, Sheri or Heather, But --
Sara-Sage
10/09/04 10:00 AM
* Let me get this straight
BL
10/09/04 11:18 AM
* Just want to mention that...
RachelT
10/09/04 12:57 PM
* I don't think he has AIDS, that's a bit harsh...
Sara-Sage
10/09/04 02:05 PM
* Re: Let me get this straight
Sara-Sage
10/09/04 12:36 PM
* Re: An update for anyone interested...
heather7476
10/08/04 07:55 AM
* Re: An update for anyone interested...
Sara-Sage
10/08/04 08:24 AM
* Re: An update for anyone interested...
heather7476
10/08/04 08:41 AM
* INSERT FOOT IN MOUTH!!!
Sara-Sage
10/08/04 11:39 AM
* Re: WHOOOOPS
heather7476
10/08/04 01:13 PM
* Re: WHOOOOPS
Sara-Sage
10/08/04 01:21 PM
* Re: WHOOOOPS
LauraSue
10/08/04 03:03 PM
* LauraSue - funny response that I'll use on him if provoked!!!
Sara-Sage
10/08/04 03:55 PM
* Tina
cailin
10/08/04 04:10 PM
* Re: Tina
Sara-Sage
10/08/04 04:16 PM
* Been there....
renaanne
10/07/04 06:38 AM
* Re: Been there....
Sara-Sage
10/07/04 01:17 PM
* I'm No Guy, BUT --
Bevvy
10/06/04 08:48 AM
* Re: I'm No Guy, BUT --
Sara-Sage
10/06/04 10:15 AM
* Sara Sage
Sheri01
10/07/04 10:15 AM
* We feel the same, wow!!!
Sara-Sage
10/07/04 01:28 PM
* Re: We feel the same, wow!!!
Sheri01
10/07/04 08:41 PM
* A long response...
Sara-Sage
10/08/04 04:01 AM
* Re: A long response...
ribbit
10/09/04 05:23 PM
* Re: A long response...
Sara-Sage
10/09/04 05:43 PM
* Re: A long response...
ribbit
10/10/04 07:19 PM
* Re: A long response...
Sara-Sage
10/11/04 07:07 AM
* Re: A long response...
ribbit
10/11/04 04:59 PM
* Re: We feel the same, wow!!!
heather7476
10/07/04 01:35 PM
* Re: We feel the same, wow!!!
Sara-Sage
10/07/04 03:04 PM
* Re: We feel the same, wow!!!
cailin
10/07/04 03:19 PM
* ROFL! I agree! -nt-
Nelly
10/07/04 05:08 PM
* What the heck does ROFL! mean???
Sara-Sage
10/07/04 06:01 PM
* Re: What the heck does ROFL! mean???
heather7476
10/07/04 06:05 PM
* Re: What the heck does ROFL! mean???
Sara-Sage
10/07/04 06:50 PM
* Re: ROFL! I agree! -nt-
heather7476
10/07/04 05:11 PM
* Re:ROTFLMBO
heather7476
10/07/04 03:29 PM
* Re: We feel the same, wow!!!
Sara-Sage
10/07/04 03:22 PM
* Re: We feel the same, wow!!!
cailin
10/07/04 03:25 PM
* Re: We feel the same, wow!!!
Sara-Sage
10/07/04 03:56 PM
* Re: We feel the same, wow!!!
Nelly
10/07/04 05:10 PM
* Re: What do you guys think? A guy question
khyricat
10/06/04 06:37 AM
* Re: What do you guys think? A guy question
heather7476
10/05/04 09:38 PM
* Re: What do you guys think? A guy question
Sheri01
10/05/04 08:03 PM
* Re: What do you guys think? A guy question
Sara-Sage
10/05/04 08:07 PM
* Re: What do you guys think? A guy question
mul132
10/05/04 05:33 PM
* Re: What do you guys think? A guy question
Sara-Sage
10/05/04 05:37 PM
* Re: Here's some juicy info
Nelly
10/05/04 05:12 PM
* Re: Here's some juicy info
Sara-Sage
10/05/04 05:14 PM
* Re: Here's some juicy info
Nelly
10/05/04 05:22 PM
* Re: Here's some juicy info
Sara-Sage
10/05/04 05:28 PM
* Re: Here's some juicy info
Nelly
10/05/04 05:39 PM
* A new question for Nelly
Sara-Sage
10/07/04 03:48 AM
* Re: A new question for Nelly
Nelly
10/07/04 07:04 AM
* Re: A new question for Nelly
Sara-Sage
10/07/04 01:33 PM
* Re: A new question for Nelly
Nelly
10/07/04 05:06 PM
* Re: Here's some juicy info
Sara-Sage
10/05/04 05:49 PM

Extra information
0 registered and 102 anonymous users are browsing this forum.

Moderator:  Heather 



Permissions
      You cannot post until you login
      You cannot reply until you login
      HTML is enabled
      UBBCode is enabled

Thread views: 41610

Jump to

| Privacy statement Help for IBS Home

*
UBB.threads™ 6.2


HelpForIBS.com BBB Business Review