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Re: A new question for Nelly
      10/07/04 07:04 AM
Nelly

Reged: 08/06/04
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Loc: Within stray mortar fire of DC

Oh yeah! For sure! It was harder when my firend looked at another guy lustingly, and the guy looked back! But his relationships were a lot different than mine. A lot quicker. Think speed dating. With sex. And then it's all over and he's looking for another conquest. This whole idea was new to me. It totally turned me off.

He explained a lot about gay culture to me. About how you've got a boyfriend, but then you have a quickie with someone else, and back to the boyfriend. And your boyfriend doesn't care. Cos he's doing it too.

OK, think of this, a guy's locker room. And they're all talking about all the sex they're having with girls, and all the sex they want to have. How they're always horney and it's never enough. Now picture them being interested, instead, with each other. Now they can have all the sex they're capable of. Now they're rating the sex between each other, the guy's bodies, how slutty each other are. That's the climate you're up against. This is the gay bar culture. You're just an outsider observing this. But you don't participate. It's just a spectator sport for you. You're not on the team. You don't play.

Would it be great to find a guy who's all into that metrosexual lifestyle? And who's into you? Sure! You just need to find a guy who plays on your team! This guy just isn't that into you. Not like that.

It's hard when someone you like digs another guy. But you never had a chance anyway. Can you take comfort in that? Probably not. Listen, you've still got a chunk of his time. Hang onto that. That's the best part anyway!

Sorry for the long post.

~nelly~

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* What do you guys think? A guy question
Sara-Sage
10/05/04 05:01 PM
* Don't worry.... Be happy
renaanne
10/12/04 07:12 AM
* Re: Don't worry.... Be happy
Sara-Sage
10/12/04 07:19 AM
* maybe you spooked him....
renaanne
10/12/04 08:18 AM
* Damn...
Sara-Sage
10/12/04 08:41 AM
* ADVICE NEEDED, please
Sara-Sage
10/12/04 09:25 AM
* Re: ADVICE NEEDED, please
Sheri01
10/12/04 09:51 AM
* Re: ADVICE NEEDED, please
Sara-Sage
10/12/04 09:54 AM
* Oh god, I have to see him tomorrow...
Sara-Sage
10/11/04 05:55 PM
* Re: Oh god, I have to see him tomorrow...
ribbit
10/11/04 06:35 PM
* Re: Oh god, I have to see him tomorrow...
Sara-Sage
10/12/04 03:51 AM
* Just relax!
Sheri01
10/12/04 06:02 AM
* Re: Just relax!
Sara-Sage
10/12/04 07:19 AM
* Hmmm... just caught up on things!
Sheri01
10/09/04 04:09 PM
* Sheri - just caught up on things!
Sara-Sage
10/09/04 04:17 PM
* Here's a photo of him!!!! OMG *DELETED*
Sara-Sage
10/08/04 04:41 PM
* Me venting some more. I need to get this all out ...long post
Sara-Sage
10/08/04 05:22 PM
* One more thing...
Sara-Sage
10/09/04 08:59 AM
* Re: More info, and me venting some more. I need to get this all out before my BF comes home.
RachelT
10/08/04 05:26 PM
* Re: More info, and me venting some more. I need to get this all out before my BF comes home.
Sara-Sage
10/08/04 05:35 PM
* Re: More info, and me venting some more. I need to get this all out before my BF comes home.
RachelT
10/08/04 05:38 PM
* Re: More info, and me venting some more. I need to get this all out before my BF comes home.
Sara-Sage
10/08/04 05:41 PM
* Re: More info, and me venting some more. I need to get this all out before my BF comes home.
RachelT
10/08/04 05:43 PM
* Oh ya...
Sara-Sage
10/08/04 05:47 PM
* Oh that's right!!!
RachelT
10/08/04 05:50 PM
* Re: Oh that's right!!!
Sara-Sage
10/08/04 05:53 PM
* Re: Oh that's right!!!
heather7476
10/08/04 06:01 PM
* Ok, I will, bye everyone. You guys are the BEST!
Sara-Sage
10/08/04 06:11 PM
* No problem!
RachelT
10/08/04 05:56 PM
* QT
renaanne
10/08/04 04:49 PM
* Re: QT
Sara-Sage
10/08/04 04:50 PM
* Whew!!! he IS cute. - nt
RachelT
10/08/04 04:43 PM
* Re: Whew!!! he IS cute. - nt
Sara-Sage
10/08/04 04:44 PM
* Re: Whew!!! he IS cute. - nt
heather7476
10/08/04 04:47 PM
* Re: Whew!!! he IS cute. - nt
Sara-Sage
10/08/04 04:49 PM
* Re: Whew!!! he IS cute. - nt
heather7476
10/08/04 04:51 PM
* Re: Whew!!! he IS cute. - nt
Sara-Sage
10/08/04 04:53 PM
* Re: Whew!!! he IS cute. - nt
heather7476
10/08/04 05:00 PM
* Re: Whew!!! he IS cute. - nt
Sara-Sage
10/08/04 05:02 PM
* Heh!!! I can only imagine! - nt
RachelT
10/08/04 04:46 PM
* An update for anyone interested...
Sara-Sage
10/08/04 07:32 AM
* I'm Not Nelly, Sheri or Heather, But --
Bevvy
10/09/04 09:52 AM
* Re: I'm Not Nelly, Sheri or Heather, But --
Sara-Sage
10/09/04 10:00 AM
* Let me get this straight
BL
10/09/04 11:18 AM
* Just want to mention that...
RachelT
10/09/04 12:57 PM
* I don't think he has AIDS, that's a bit harsh...
Sara-Sage
10/09/04 02:05 PM
* Re: Let me get this straight
Sara-Sage
10/09/04 12:36 PM
* Re: An update for anyone interested...
heather7476
10/08/04 07:55 AM
* Re: An update for anyone interested...
Sara-Sage
10/08/04 08:24 AM
* Re: An update for anyone interested...
heather7476
10/08/04 08:41 AM
* INSERT FOOT IN MOUTH!!!
Sara-Sage
10/08/04 11:39 AM
* Re: WHOOOOPS
heather7476
10/08/04 01:13 PM
* Re: WHOOOOPS
Sara-Sage
10/08/04 01:21 PM
* Re: WHOOOOPS
LauraSue
10/08/04 03:03 PM
* LauraSue - funny response that I'll use on him if provoked!!!
Sara-Sage
10/08/04 03:55 PM
* Tina
cailin
10/08/04 04:10 PM
* Re: Tina
Sara-Sage
10/08/04 04:16 PM
* Been there....
renaanne
10/07/04 06:38 AM
* Re: Been there....
Sara-Sage
10/07/04 01:17 PM
* I'm No Guy, BUT --
Bevvy
10/06/04 08:48 AM
* Re: I'm No Guy, BUT --
Sara-Sage
10/06/04 10:15 AM
* Sara Sage
Sheri01
10/07/04 10:15 AM
* We feel the same, wow!!!
Sara-Sage
10/07/04 01:28 PM
* Re: We feel the same, wow!!!
Sheri01
10/07/04 08:41 PM
* A long response...
Sara-Sage
10/08/04 04:01 AM
* Re: A long response...
ribbit
10/09/04 05:23 PM
* Re: A long response...
Sara-Sage
10/09/04 05:43 PM
* Re: A long response...
ribbit
10/10/04 07:19 PM
* Re: A long response...
Sara-Sage
10/11/04 07:07 AM
* Re: A long response...
ribbit
10/11/04 04:59 PM
* Re: We feel the same, wow!!!
heather7476
10/07/04 01:35 PM
* Re: We feel the same, wow!!!
Sara-Sage
10/07/04 03:04 PM
* Re: We feel the same, wow!!!
cailin
10/07/04 03:19 PM
* ROFL! I agree! -nt-
Nelly
10/07/04 05:08 PM
* What the heck does ROFL! mean???
Sara-Sage
10/07/04 06:01 PM
* Re: What the heck does ROFL! mean???
heather7476
10/07/04 06:05 PM
* Re: What the heck does ROFL! mean???
Sara-Sage
10/07/04 06:50 PM
* Re: ROFL! I agree! -nt-
heather7476
10/07/04 05:11 PM
* Re:ROTFLMBO
heather7476
10/07/04 03:29 PM
* Re: We feel the same, wow!!!
Sara-Sage
10/07/04 03:22 PM
* Re: We feel the same, wow!!!
cailin
10/07/04 03:25 PM
* Re: We feel the same, wow!!!
Sara-Sage
10/07/04 03:56 PM
* Re: We feel the same, wow!!!
Nelly
10/07/04 05:10 PM
* Re: What do you guys think? A guy question
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10/06/04 06:37 AM
* Re: What do you guys think? A guy question
heather7476
10/05/04 09:38 PM
* Re: What do you guys think? A guy question
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10/05/04 08:03 PM
* Re: What do you guys think? A guy question
Sara-Sage
10/05/04 08:07 PM
* Re: What do you guys think? A guy question
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10/05/04 05:33 PM
* Re: What do you guys think? A guy question
Sara-Sage
10/05/04 05:37 PM
* Re: Here's some juicy info
Nelly
10/05/04 05:12 PM
* Re: Here's some juicy info
Sara-Sage
10/05/04 05:14 PM
* Re: Here's some juicy info
Nelly
10/05/04 05:22 PM
* Re: Here's some juicy info
Sara-Sage
10/05/04 05:28 PM
* Re: Here's some juicy info
Nelly
10/05/04 05:39 PM
* A new question for Nelly
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10/07/04 03:48 AM
* Re: A new question for Nelly
Nelly
10/07/04 07:04 AM
* Re: A new question for Nelly
Sara-Sage
10/07/04 01:33 PM
* Re: A new question for Nelly
Nelly
10/07/04 05:06 PM
* Re: Here's some juicy info
Sara-Sage
10/05/04 05:49 PM

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