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Hi,

I am so sorry you are going through a hard time in your marriage. You can ramble on any time you want and we will listen. If anything, I think it helps to get it all out.

I'm sure those crazy shifts at work can be horrible for a relationship.

There was a girl in my office that was having trouble with her husband and she decided to write him a letter expressing her feelings (it was a long letter). She left it for him and after he read it things did begin to change. I guess he just didn't realize how important these things were to her until she put it in writing. You know, men have hard heads and sometimes you have to have to go around the bush to get them to listen and understand. UGH!!

What about this? If there is a very special dinner he likes you can say I will cook your "favorite" if you will go for a walk with me afterwards, take me to a movie, etc. Or what about leaving him a little love note taped to the TV... or taped to his mirror....If that doesn't get his attention..... Oh Gee, I don't know...I am just rambling.

Hope things get better for you.

Barbie

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