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*HUG* ramble as needed.. I would a) try to spend some time with him, even if it is in front of the TV when something you are both interested in is on, but if he doesn't spend any time with you still and isnt' interested in talking, it sounds like either he's severely depressed (DH has depression issues at times) or he doesn't want to be in a relationship.. in which case- getting out may be the best thing.

b) try to talk to him... and explain what your concerns are.. we have worked opposite shifts and had a whopping 2 mornigns nad 2 evenings a week together... right now we work the same shift but different days so at least one of us is at work every day, and tired in the evening, though he seems to never get anything done even when I do some nights and his days off he goofs off each week and we don't have a housekeeper so mine are always spent doing housework. but we've talked about that and he is supposed to be doing more... we'll see what happens- if it doesn't improve and he doesn't seem to care, is he depressed? does he need medical attention? I was about to leave Bill for behaviour like t his when he was diagnosed as depressed and once he was medicated he was a different person.. the problem is he goes off his meds every so often...

If its not something like that- get out while you can, you have enough issues and don't need to be dealing with his on top of it.. he's an adult.

Amie

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Dietetics Student (anticipating RD exam in Aug 2010)
IBS - A
Dairy Allergic
Fructose and MSG intollerant

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