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I don't know if this is going to help but here's my two pence worth.

To start is your BF actually asking to leave you? If he isn't don't feel you need to let him go. He's an adult and he does know his own mind.

Also you seem to react to a lot of things by saying it can't be done. If you keep doing this then your life will never change since you've already defeated yourself at the start.

1) Some businesses do need workers for the later shift. For example call centres or late night coffee shops. So it is possible to find something in the evening. You need to start a serious job search and in the mean time be the best and most indispensable employees at MacDonalds. That way you will earn yourself a good reference which can take you on to better things.

2) MacDonalds is a excellent employer and I know a few people who have done very well there. Don't write it off as a dead end job.

3) Why are you assuming that this is the way your life will always be? There are many people on these boards (Heather included) who have been in real dire straits and have gotten better.

4) You don't mention how you eat. Are you getting enough fibre in your diet. You could start with taking bebefiber as it's readily available at most pharmacies.

5) What do you do to relax? Trying to and forcing yourself to relax rarely works.

6) Exercise is important to help ease constipation and the more vigorous the better. it doesn't have to mean going outside - you can do it at home with a video or a itunes download.

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