Re: I am near rock bottom and not sure how to pull myself back up...
05/14/03 06:04 AM
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Nugget,
That is NOT fair!!!!!!!!!!
Yes, everything happens for a reason, and sometimes we can't see the reason. And even though I'm sure this is happening for a positive effect in the long run (for example, if the neighbor hadn't complained, maybe the extra foot would have been ruined by a tornado--but because the extra foot will be removed, the tornado doesn't touch it). I'm an eternal optimist! I heard a story once where this person didn't catch the subway they wanted when it came. The man closed the door on the person! It was totaly UNFAIR! Or, so it seemed.....it turned out that the subway they missed broke down--and the one the person got on 10 minutes later was fine! Can you imagine? If they had gotten on the first subway, they would have waited for a LONG time!!! So, you never know why these things hapen...and they feel SO unfair...but it will be for the best! (((hugs)))
You are SO caring! It's SO sweet of you that you want your hubby to be happy--I hope he knows how lucky he is to have you! You're VERY special!
It sounds to me like you're doing a GREAT job! You're sticking to your walking routine--wow! I give you a LOT of credit there! Plus--you're venting on the board--that takes courage! I would be JUST as upset as you btw if I were in your situation! I LOVE my husband--and I want him to be happy too! And when you don't get enough sleep and you don't eat right, your emotions can take over (serotonin levels change I think)...this is not a YOU thing--remember that! (I cry inside, and sometimes out, for something as simple as when my husband has a bad day--I just feel his pain so much!! We're VERY close and I care about him very deeply)!
Things WILL work out for the best! Maybe you can't see it now, and maybe you won't see it tomorrow, or even next year--but it will turn out for the best!
(((((((((HUGE HUGS)))))))))))
Ruchie
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