Sex at 14!!! Call me an "old foggy", but it still suprises me that kids think it is okay to have sex during teen years.
I really feel for you and it is great you are still married to the same man - doesn't happen often. It is also great you really care about your son's best interest.
I suggest you do what what my mom did. She scared me into not having sex before marriage. My mom got pregnant at 16 in 1963 and drilled in me her regrets about not finishing school, responability of a baby, marry a man she didn't love,etc. She is stuck in a life of misery and I never wanted that.
The other thing you can do for your son is take him to a conference about the dangers of teenage sex. I attended one of those in high school and made me really think about how dangerous it can be. It is a fact HIV is on the rise among teens as well as STD.
The other thing to think about is condems are not as safe as the government wants you to believe. Girls do get pregnant using condems and a woman has a small margin of time to get pregnant every month. Lets say a woman is fertile only two days during her cycle and during the rest of her cycle she has a 15% chance of contracting HIV or STD. If a girl has a disease she can give it to your son. All is it takes is one hole in a condem to get a disease.
I hope I don't come across as sounding weird, but it is my passion to see more teens abstain from sex and wait until marriage.
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Re: STRESS .......NEED TO VENT!!!!!!
Call me an "old foggy", but it still suprises me that kids think it is okay to have sex during teen years. 
