Beth, the other thread was getting long so started a new one - wanted to give you a big HUG and let you know how proud I am of you that you talked to your parents about what you've been going through and are going to find a counsellor. Honestly, I've gotten at the bottom of a lot of my STUFF lately through hashing it out with Mom (mther in law/friend), I was too afraid to go to a counsellor, which is silly, but just digging in there and admitting the way I feel about certain things, doing that with someone I feel safe talking to has been HUGE, I realized there are HUGE things in my life I never once talked to ANYONE about, just kept it all inside because I'm "not allowed to have any problems", which is a big part of my issues. I could go into the long drawn out history on THAT misconception, but that would bore everyone here to tears. Point is that TALKING IT OUT has helped so much, I was embarrassed to death when I started out but now I'm so glad I did it. Take care of yourself, in every way! Let us hear how it goes, as you care to - we care about you!
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Michelle
...the greatest of these is LOVE. (I Cor 13)
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Jrrachel - so proud of you!
