I was speaking from a woman's perspective. Why can't you wear a tee-shirt? I see guys at the beach do it all the time. I think you put way too much emphasis on your gut. People really don't give a s***, and probably don't give you anymore attention than they do anyone else. They are much too self-absorbed. I think you are waaaay too important in your own mind.
I consider myself still rather young, and when I look at a guy, there is more to it than the body. If all that counts to you is appearance, then I would hate to be the girl in your life. Come on, what are you going to do when that fades, because it does with age?
I don't like beer or hard liquor. I prefer wine. I only drink it on occasion.
My idea of fun is not getting loaded. If that is your idea of fun, then you need to change that. I realize you are young and like to hang with your friends and most likely get loaded, but you have a condition that prevents you from doing that. If you want to be in pain and misery...go right ahead, get loaded.
As far as I can see, you are making any excuse you can find, not to change your mindset and deal with your issues. Unless you change that, you are always going to look at what you can't do, and bring more misery to yourself, than already caused by the IBS.
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