Naturopanic, you are allowed your opinion and allowed to disagree. However, others on this board see what I see.
You play the blame game (Heather), the "poor me, why me" game, the "I can't do anything, my life sucks game", and on and on it goes.
I am trying to point out to you, that this is not helping, but only creating more pain for yourself.
I just turned 31 and share some of the same drama that you have. I work around it. When I plan to go to the beach, I pack some snacks for the trip. I wear a slimming one- piece, and no one notices the gut. I would love to wear a two-piece, but most of the time, I can't. However, there are times when I can, especially when my C is under control.
When I kick back with my girlfriends, I will have a glass of wine, but some good French bread first. My closest friends are aware of my situation, so they don't push or ask questions.
I thoroughly enjoy my life, and I refuse to let IBS run it.
When you whine and moan about your fate, it only makes it worse. No one can fix this for you. Not Heather, not doctors, etc. So, stop blaming and change your mind to view you situation differently.
I hate to point this out to you, but you had better get used to living with IBS, because it's here. Focus on the good and positive in your life, focus on what you can do, instead of what you can't do. If you don't, you are going to live a miserable existence for the rest of your life.
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