Carolyn, I so appreciate your post. I too, have many of the issues you mention, but could never understand the connection. Most times it is not about the research as you state, but about personal experience. I so agree with that. So as not to tie up this board and thread with debate, as inevitably will happen, I will email you at your personal email address for more information on your journey. I always appreciate these kinds of posts, that relate personal experience vs research. Thanks so much!