Marrying a nonJew doesnt have to mean not being observant! My husband is not Jewish either, but he is very what I call Judeo-philic. We observe all Jewish holidays, and our 3 kids even attend an Orthodox Hebrew school (!) We even keep kosher here and are moderately Sabbath observant.
It can be done!
-------------------- ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
"A waist is a terrible thing to mind".