I hope no one thinks I'm being arrogant when I say this, but I really don't get the embarassment. I feel bad that there are so many people out there who are feeling embarassed by a bodily function. I know it can be loud, smelly, and distracting, but we all have flaws. I find that friends and lovers not only accept me for being honest and up front about stuff like IBS, but they actually admire me for having the courage to talk about things like this without being self-concious. To be honest, I don't see it as a flaw; it is just part of who I am. Even if I didn't like who I am, I would have to say that there are probably enough good qualities to me that would override a few farts.
And as for sex, I have never had a man laugh or even crack a smile when I farted during sex. Afterwards we may joke or laugh about it, but during the act our minds are elsewhere! As long as you both are enjoying yourselves, forget about those extra noises. The less you make of it, the less he'll think of it. 
Society makes up the rules of what is polite and what isn't. You can choose to adhere to those rules or create your own. 
~ Lisa
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Re: Since we are getting personal. I have a sex question.
