Thanks so much! I remember you Janey. I used to post under "Nugget". I'm reading your reply here at work trying to hold back the tears. I'm so frustrated with my husband and the whole anxiety, IBS situation that I don't know what to do. I hate to say much more about it to my husband because his mom is going in for minor surgery tomorrow. It seems I always get the "cold shoulder" from him when I'm not well. I'm about to the point where I wonder if I'd be happier single. I hate the thought of divorce...I love him...and we have some good times...wonderful times...it's these bad times that are so stressful...and I don't need that right now.