Ya know, when I first started dating my fiance, i was scared like you wouldn't belive about *oh no, what if i get ill at his house, what will he think when i stink up the place* and all of those kinds of things but honestly, as of June 4th we will have been together for four years and when i'm having a really bad attack, he will leave me alone or rub my back to make the pain feel better. (of course not while i'm in the bathroom or anything... before the whole D starts up) He will even get me my peppermint tea or pick up pretzels on his way home from work.
We went on a trip to Calgary last week and on the last day we were there I had such a violent, painful, loud, and smelly attack that when i got out of the bathroom (which was right beside the bed in the hotel) I was so embarrassed, and so guilty about being so ill, and he had no problems with it. He understood it wasn't something I can always control and even though i'm sure the whole hotel heard me, he said he didn't hear or notice a thing..
He even completly understands my odd eatting habits and doesn't make fun of me at all. If he wants something I can't have, we always go somewhere where there is safe stuff for my stomach... You will find someone that understands.. Hell, even for our wedding next year, the menu doesn't have alot of things I can handle but he is more than willing to pull some strings just so as I can have something that won't make me ill on our special day.
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