My best advise to you is to find a man who loves you for everything you are. When I met my husband, I was very embarassed and shy about the whole 'ibs' thing. However, after a month or so, I just came clean and told him everything about my condition.. and let me tell you, he completely understood. Sometimes, when we're 'intimate' I feel a roaring in my stomach and I have to flee to the bathroom, but he understands. He never gets mad at me for it, or makes me feel embarrassed or guilty about it. He just understands.. because he loves me. I know it can be hard to be comfortable with a man when you have active ibs, but just relax and know that when you find the right one, he'll love you for all that you are and will accept your ibs. By the way, me and my hubby waited until marriage before having sex. If youre very nervous about sex with a boyfriend because of ibs, maybe you should wait a little bit. After all, a guy who is willing to wait to have sex before marriage is a keeper!
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