I know that feeling. But I just did it anyway, I just went ahead and did it. ..Sometimes though, I admit that I make excuses when I'm bloated/gassy. I sort of have a long distance relationship, so when we schedule time to be together, I usually try and calm my stomach down before that time comes. It works well, because he isn't with me all the time, probably once a week.
I don't know if I have broken any barriers here, and I don't know if I should apologize if I have but this seems like an emotional issue as well that needs to be discussed. Lately, my ibs is horrible, so when me and my partner have sex, I usually just lie back so my stomach doesn't hurt as much or doesn't look as bloated. I also try not to think about it. Thinking about my future stable days, also helps! I get excited about having a flat stomach and developing newfound confidence. I hope things work out for you. I also find that keeping your shirt on or something during sex may help hide the bloating.
The thing that is making me nervous, is when I might be moving in with my boyfriend to go to college. What will he think when he sees me spreading babyfood on a peice of toast? Hah!
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