I have been posting on this board for several years. Personally, I think something is terribly wrong in this world when people can't take thier minds off of themselves long enough to think about others. As posted earlier, we have pre-teens and teens looking for help here also. Sometimes I believe that we are the only people in their lives they can go to for help and understanding. It doesn't matter what type of heading you put on your post, they are going to read it anyway, they are kids. They are the ones I am thinking of, yes, sex is a very open and discussed topic, sometimes too open and too often discussed in inapropriate places. If there were no young people posting and reading here, normally I would have no problem with it.
I just don't personaly have a need to share with everyone the most intimate moments I share with my h. I can ask questions and have them answered that won't be brought out into the open boards. My grandchildren are precious to me, and if one of them had walked in and red Ali's post, I would have spent time explaining something to them that they are too young to understand and should'nt have to understand. What offends me personally is the idea that anything seems to go these days, anytime and anywhere. If you think it, you may as well say it.
So, I do not expect an apology, I do know that I don't have to stay around and read this stuff. I have been a member here for a long time, and made many good friends who feel the same way I do. I am feeilng that I don't matter, and the time I have spent here learning and helping others means nothing.
I don't mind saying again, I have seen people kicked off for much less content or action.
My last question being? IF something irritates your throat and makes it sore, why in the world would you continue to do it!!!! hah, I guess you would have to go online to get the answers.
My friends here know who I am, and I know who they are. Common Courtesy must have gone out the window the minute someone decided that sex is an open and easily talked about subject. Its ok, I am great! And I will continue to be great and feel great! I learned a long time ago what my triggers are and how to eat. I hope the rest of you may be so blessed!!!
Heather,sad to see this happen. I have really enjoyed many topics and your many emails. I am moving on with my life, I like to correspond with those who think of others feelings and take the time to soothe and old friendship that is walking out the door!!