In a few short months I am going to be a lawyer, talk about a hectic profession! Plus, the area of law I'm going into (criminal prosecution) requires me to be in court, on center stage most of the time. When I was first trying to get my IBS-D under control I freaked out all the time and worried I wouldn't be able to practice law as I wanted to. It was a horrible feeling to think that I couldn't do all I was capable and desiring to do because of my tummy problems. All of my worry and anxiety about my stomach caused my IBS to flare, which made me obsses more about my problems, which led to more IBS symptoms. A never ending circle of pain!
I finally decided anxiety was not going to inhibit be anymore and I went to the doctor. He put me on Effexor and it has been my life saver! It's an anti-anxiety/depressant. It cured me of my panic attacks and, along with Heather's diet and regular exerise, it helped get my stomach problems under control. I would strongly suggest you talk to your doctor about an anti-anxiety or anti-depression medication. I know others on here have used Welbutrin, Zoloft, Elavil and Effexor to name a few.
You do not have to let your anxiety control your life! Good luck