Lucrese, Please, please, give this a lot of thought. You are understandably scared and upset now. I dealt with a lot of girls going through this when my girl was in high school. Abortion seems the easy way out. It is not! Please tell your parents (at least the most understanding one). They will be hurt, but there is nothing more beautiful than the baby-grandparent bond. IBS is the least of your worries. Many girls who have abortions, regret them the rest of their lives. Please get help and don't do something you may regret. We love you. xo Bette