It sounds like something my mil would do. She of course would feel horrible and apologies 14 million times. They just don't get it and I find some people don't even realize there is diary in cheese or butter or crazy things like that. She put butter under the skin of the turkey at Thanksgiving! I was wondering why my stomach was hurting. It's like where are you from that you don't know that that is diary. I have to be so specific that half the time I want to say forget it.
I have a great friend that purposely makes things I can eat when all my friends get together, which is almost every week. She will even call to ask if she has it right and if I had any other suggestions. She is my best friend and I'm sure you can see why. She also defends and tries to get my other friends to try to accomidate me. One of my other friends told her she couldn't cook that way because it was too hard. I'm so greatful for my friend because she told her how easy it was and that she was complicating it too much. All my other friends would prefer not to try. Another girl called me and wanted to know why I was trying to make everyone else feel guilty for eating things I can't. Well, maybe because there was nothing I could safely eat! Why do I even bother going. Oh and then there is my sil who thinks it's all in my head. Dh is throwing me a birthday part in a couple of weeks and he is putting her in charge of the kids food since he felt she would purposly put something in it just to say see it's in your head.
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Re: Need to vent big time! watch for expletives!
