I'm lucky! Really lucky! I didn't start the symptoms until about 7 or 8 months ago. I've been married for 5 glorious years and my hubby wouldn't leave me for anything. He said to me (when I was diagnosed), "It's ok hunny. I'll be there. I won't leave you, no matter how serious or gross an illness! He took the time (all on his own) to read both of Heather's books so that he has a better understanding. What a sweetie!