I hate being pampered when I'm sick. I want to be left entirely alone....my husband respects that. He leaves me alone when I don't feel well. That's why we were "designed for each other". His mother has Lupus and his dad is diabetic. So, he spent his entire childhood caring for his mother while she was bedridden. I guess he is kind of "used" to being around people that have health issues. Nobody really ever gets used to it.....but, he knows how to deal with it. His parents were supposed to come over here for christmas but since they know what I'm going through they called and cancelled their trip because they both know it puts alot of stress on my heath, just to have visitors. And it does.....because I want to be left alone when I'm sick. I have a high respect for what they did for me.