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How do you all emotionally cope?
      07/05/05 11:58 AM
Anthem

Reged: 10/01/04
Posts: 76
Loc: Phoenix, AZ

I have been keeping a diary of IBS symptoms and food and emotional state since April. I just graphed it out (a regular calendar with colored bars that show if it was a GOOD day or a GAS day or a D Day - my patterns). This is like some never ending nightmare, and I know I have to somehow ACCEPT it before it tears me apart. But I know that I become despairing at times, and just want to curl up in a chair and not exist. We men are not known for handling body pain well, y'know (no practice with monthly periods or child birth).

But perhaps I should count my blessings. In April I had 26 days that I deemed good. In May it was 22. In June it was 20. Not sure why the numbers are going down, but I suppose it might be a matter of seeing the glass half empty or half full. The worst part is simply thinking that I do not control the body. I do everything right and still it flares up. Heather has great advice, but I have yet to find the formula that stabilizes me. If I had to swing a dead chicken around my head under a full moon and howl like a wolf, I would do it! Anything! I actually had the Faustian idea, if a demon showed up and offered you total health, would you do it? Of course not! But IBS brings up such images. I pray about it instead.

How do you cope? Have you learned to accept it, since how we RESPOND to events is what gives our life their quality.

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* How do you all emotionally cope?
Anthem
07/05/05 11:58 AM
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Passion
07/09/05 12:01 PM
* Welcome, Passion
Augie
07/10/05 07:45 AM
* Re: Maria! Maria!
lj
07/08/05 04:29 PM
* Re: Laura!
lalala
07/08/05 09:03 PM
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daliatree
07/07/05 04:26 PM
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Jessica Anne
07/07/05 09:14 AM
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melissamonica
07/07/05 06:44 AM
* Re: How do you all emotionally cope? really a good question!
Lyndsey
07/07/05 04:06 PM
* Not very well-nt
Augie
07/06/05 06:33 PM
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AerobicsAngel
07/06/05 09:45 PM
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Snowy
07/06/05 02:30 PM
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Portageegal
07/06/05 02:35 PM
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Mitch
07/06/05 07:40 AM
* ADBs! lol
kshsmom
07/06/05 06:25 AM
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Emily H.
07/06/05 05:31 AM
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SCgirl
07/05/05 08:38 PM
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doubletrouble
07/05/05 08:21 PM
* Just a couple of things to add...
Stephie
07/05/05 08:17 PM
* Re: Just a couple of things to add...
AerobicsAngel
07/06/05 10:01 PM
* Alesha
jen1013
07/08/05 09:44 PM
* Re: Just a couple of things to add...
franny
07/06/05 10:28 PM
* I remember you Aerobics Angel..
doubletrouble
07/06/05 10:25 PM
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AerobicsAngel
07/07/05 09:07 PM
* Re: I remember you Aerobics Angel..
doubletrouble
07/07/05 11:03 PM
* I remember you too!
Linz
07/06/05 11:49 PM
* I totally understand
heavenlee
07/06/05 10:54 PM
* Heavenlee
doubletrouble
07/07/05 01:24 AM
* Re: AerobicsAngel, Heavenlee, Doubletrouble
lalala
07/07/05 08:21 AM
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Wind
07/07/05 09:28 AM
* wow...
maikko
07/07/05 09:05 AM
* Party Poopers Unite
doubletrouble
07/07/05 06:45 PM
* Wow, what a wonderful thread...
retrograde
07/05/05 07:25 PM
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Wind
07/05/05 06:07 PM
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Yoda (formerly Hans)
07/05/05 05:21 PM
* Well said, Alicia!
_Willow
07/07/05 08:57 PM
* You're right Shannon
Portageegal
07/08/05 05:04 AM
* oh, I agree.... when i'm in an attack, esp a D one...
_Willow
07/08/05 06:51 PM
* Re: How do you all emotionally cope?
Snorkie
07/05/05 04:55 PM
* Acceptance... a long, slow process
atomic rose
07/05/05 03:58 PM
* Re: Acceptance... a long, slow process
Kree
07/08/05 08:46 AM
* Re: Acceptance... a long, slow process
*Melissa*
07/08/05 09:04 AM
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Snow for Sarala
07/05/05 12:07 PM
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Linz
07/05/05 12:05 PM
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Jennifer Rose
07/05/05 12:04 PM
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07/05/05 07:01 PM

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