the things you still feel/ grapple with since this roommate are exactly the same ones for me. i'll take a guess that your roomie has either borderline or histrionic pd. a bpd woman married my dad yrs after my mom died, and she has since all but ruined our once quite close & warm relationship. it's been a long, brutal, violent saga, filled with wholly unnecessary chaos, crises, deceit & drama.
i wouldn't count on your former roomie having gotten better. few do, even tho they can appear to mellow with age, because they don't think anything is wrong with them...it's everyone else....they are the eternal victims.
and then i could go on about my last s.o., the sociopath. lol. i kicked him out of my life 9 yrs ago. have yrs ago forgiven him/ can even laugh about him. i've learned alot, but, i wouldn't have minded not feeling i had to in order to heal.
Print
Remind Me
Notify Moderator
|
Posts
Re: Maria! - OUT! w/ personality disordered
