My husband and I have been together 8 1/2 years and married for 5 years! We do the same thing, I bring up things that bother me and he waits until he can't stand it and we have a huge fight. He usually takes my moods personally and although I feel bad, I don't think he needs to feel it is always about him. Sometimes I am just frustrated with myself. I am bad because when we fight he always apologizes and I usaully get around it so I don't have to apologize. Aren't I bad? I am trying to remember to apologize to him when I need to.
We had to get our van fixed today and I ended up stuck at my in-laws house with the girls for six hours. I kept calling my husband with updates and he keeps apologizing. He is always trying to fix everything and make everyone feel comfortable. I find this is one of the qualities I love the most. He is such an awsome guy. He even gets up in the night to take care of our sick children. I just had to add that.
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