I actually went to counceliing (as you can see I didnt attend spelling classes so I spelt that wrong haha) and he gave me the best piece of advice.
Remember - once you have expressed your feeling and he has tried hard just remember that what happens after this point is not your responsibility. It's easier said than done but it does work and helps with the anxiety. Don't dwell on the fact that your feelings were hurt from the discussion because they can sense that (men are like horses - they sense fear haha) just remain normal. If he has said he'll try harder take it as that. If it happens again - then worry about it. Don't dwell on it now.
Like I said it's easier said than done. I have used this method and it does work for me. You and I seem to have alot in common with our husbands.
Hope you can try this and see if it works. I know it helped me alot because I always dwelled on the what-ifs now I just deal with the what-nows.
Lana_Marie
I am in Saskatchewan, Canada
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